Intimacy Challenges Counselling for Couples in Langley British Columbia

Intimacy Challenges Counselling for Couples in Langley British Columbia

Rekindling Connection: Intimacy-Focused Couples Counselling in Langley, BC

If you’re feeling disconnected from your partner, emotionally, physically, or both, you’re not alone. I often hear from couples who love each other deeply but feel miles apart. Whether you're navigating past trauma, painful betrayals, or ongoing communication breakdowns, the struggle can feel exhausting and isolating.

I’m Mahsa Hamedanizadeh, a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and the founder of Roma Villa Counselling. I specialize in couples therapy that helps partners heal old wounds and rebuild closeness. Through evidence-based methods and a trauma-informed approach, I support couples in Langley, British Columbia, and across the province through secure, compassionate online sessions.

A Warm, Human-Centred Approach to Couples Therapy

When couples come to me, they’re often hurting, frustrated by repeated arguments, unsure how to reconnect, and longing for the emotional safety they once shared. If that’s where you are right now, I want you to know that it is possible to feel close again.

As a therapist, I bring a calm, supportive, and non-judgmental presence into the room. I work collaboratively with both partners to identify what’s not working and, more importantly, what can help restore your connection. My goal is to create a space where you both feel seen, heard, and understood.

Who I Am and How I Work

I’m a Registered Clinical Counsellor with advanced training in trauma healing and couples therapy. I use a blend of EMDR, the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and trauma-focused CBT. These approaches allow us to address both individual pain and relationship patterns, so you’re not just coping, but truly healing together.

In addition to English, I also offer sessions in Farsi, and I work with couples of diverse cultural backgrounds, orientations, and relationship dynamics. Healing and connection are universal, and everyone deserves a relationship where they feel safe, respected, and emotionally close.

What Couples Often Struggle With

Many couples reach out to me when they’re experiencing:

  • Emotional disconnection – feeling distant even when you're physically together

  • Communication issues – repeated misunderstandings, shutdowns, or blow-ups

  • Trauma in the relationship – unresolved pain from past experiences that keeps resurfacing

  • Loss of intimacy – when touch, closeness, and sex have faded, leaving one or both partners feeling rejected or alone

These are not just surface-level problems; they often stem from deeper emotional wounds. That’s why I offer intimacy challenges counselling for couples in Langley, BC, that’s rooted in trauma-informed care and emotional safety.

What to Expect in Therapy

Our sessions will begin by building a foundation of safety and trust. I’ll help both of you understand your emotional patterns and what’s been getting in the way of connection.

We’ll use EMDR therapy to gently process and heal the unresolved trauma or emotional pain that may be fuelling conflict or distance. From there, we’ll integrate couples counselling approaches like the Gottman Method and EFT to improve communication, increase emotional availability, and rebuild intimacy, step by step.

You’ll leave with tools you can use every day: how to navigate conflict more gently, express your needs clearly, and create rituals of connection that bring you closer.

How This Work Can Transform Your Relationship

Couples who work with me often tell me they finally feel like they can breathe again in their relationship. Some of the outcomes you can expect include:

  • Greater emotional closeness and trust

  • Improved communication and fewer arguments

  • A deeper understanding of one another’s needs

  • Reignited physical intimacy and connection

  • Relief from the weight of unresolved trauma

I’m honoured to support couples in Langley and throughout British Columbia who are ready to rebuild and reconnect. If you’ve been searching for a safe space to heal, I’d be honoured to walk alongside you.

Take the First Step Toward Healing

If you're feeling stuck in painful relationship patterns and long to feel close again, you're not alone, and you don’t have to figure it all out by yourselves.

Let’s talk. I offer a free 15-minute consultation so we can explore whether this work feels right for you. Whether you're looking for EMDR therapy, support for intimacy challenges, or a compassionate guide through relationship healing, I’m here for you.

Reach out today and begin your journey toward deeper connection and lasting change.
Serving Langley, British Columbia, and clients across the province—online and with care.