EMDR Therapy for Couples in Langley British Columbia

Hi, I’m Mahsa Hamedanizadeh, RCC. I’m Here to Help

As a Registered Clinical Counsellor, I help couples navigate the effects of trauma, emotional disconnection, and communication breakdowns. My approach is collaborative, warm, and grounded in research-backed methods. Every couple I work with is unique, so I tailor our sessions to fit your specific challenges and goals.

My training includes:

• EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) Therapy

• Gottman Method Couples Therapy

• Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

• Internal Family Systems (IFS)

• Trauma-Focused CBT

Whether you're dealing with past betrayals, ongoing arguments, or a sense of drifting apart, my role is to guide you through healing both individually and as a couple with care and intention.

When Trauma Disrupts the Relationship

Many couples I work with come to me feeling frustrated, isolated, or stuck in a cycle of conflict and avoidance. Unresolved trauma, whether from childhood, past relationships, or difficult life experiences, can quietly shape how we connect with our partners.

Here in Langley, I support couples facing:

• Emotional disconnection that seems impossible to fix

• Repeated arguments or communication that ends in silence or shouting

• A lingering sense of hurt from past betrayals or losses

• Feeling like you’re walking on eggshells around each other

• The weight of trauma spilling over into your relationship

You might love each other deeply but still feel alone in your relationship. Therapy can offer a space to unpack those experiences safely and start moving toward connection again.

What to Expect in Couples EMDR Therapy

In our work together, we’ll create a space that feels emotionally safe for both partners. My goal is to help each of you feel seen, heard, and supported. EMDR therapy allows us to gently process past events that are impacting your current relationship, while other approaches like the Gottman Method and EFT help build new patterns of connection and trust.

Here’s what you can expect:

• EMDR therapy to help resolve distressing memories or triggers that affect your relationship

• Communication tools for navigating hard conversations with honesty and care

• Emotionally focused support to rebuild trust and increase closeness

• A collaborative, respectful process where both voices matter

Sessions are 75 or 100 minutes long, offering time and space to work deeply without feeling rushed.

How Therapy Can Help You Reconnect

Couples therapy that includes EMDR can lead to powerful changes both in how you feel and how you relate to one another.

Clients often tell me they leave sessions with:

• A deeper understanding of each other’s emotions and experiences

• Tools to express needs without fear or blame

• Relief from long-held emotional pain

• A renewed sense of intimacy, safety, and teamwork in the relationship

Healing from trauma doesn’t mean forgetting the past. It means learning how to move forward with more compassion, connection, and confidence.

And if you're in Langley or anywhere in British Columbia, you're just a few clicks away from starting that process.

Take the First Step Toward Healing Together

If you’re ready to move past the pain and start reconnecting with your partner, I’m here to support you. Whether you’re dealing with past trauma, feeling emotionally stuck, or simply wanting to build a healthier relationship, therapy can help.

Let’s talk. I offer a free 15-minute consultation so you can ask questions, learn more about my approach, and see if it feels like a good fit.

Click here to schedule your consultation and begin your journey toward a stronger, more connected relationship.

Sessions available online across British Columbia, serving clients in Langley and beyond.